Youre upsetting me, she says and walks away.

“You’re upsetting me”, she says and walks away….

Breast cancer, I talk about breast cancer.Especially in October (or “Pinktober” as it is sometimes called) as it is easier to strike up a conservation with a stranger due to the social focus on this disease.Today at a volunteer event to protect Galveston Bay, I asked the young woman standing near me if she had ever heard of IBC, Inflammatory Breast Cancer?She seemed a little confused at not being versed on IBC as she clearly was an educated woman savvy in women’s health issues.After a short delay, she said no, she had not heard of this type of breast cancer.I began to tell her about IBC, the cancer that is viewed as a rare but most fatal breast cancer often striking women prior to mammogram suggested age screenings.Her face tightened; unwittingly I had hit a nerve, as she told me there was a lot of breast cancer in her family.Within seconds calm washed over her face and she smiled and said, “But I will never get breast cancer!”Then I was the one at loss for words, “Why do you say that?”Her reply, “I have nursed two children, each child over a year, so my breasts are resistance to cancer.”I sputtered for a minute…and I said, “I hate to tell you this, but I am a mom of five children, and nursed all of them at least to their first birthday, and I talk to women about IBC because I was diagnosed with this cancer the summer of 2007”.

Inflammatory Breast cancer is the most fatal of the known breast cancers and tends to hit women in younger years often prior to mammogram suggested age screening recommendations. Proper and aggressive treatment with IBC is very important and person’s presenting with IBC symptoms need to seek a diagnosis as soon as possible.

My heart was heavy after speaking to this beautiful young woman, because I think of myself as someone who encourages, gives hope and fights for education of a most aggressive cancer, which is dubbed “The Silent Killer”.As I watched her walk away, I felt like I had taken something from her, a confidence that nursing was a given protector and that she could not get breast cancer, instead of my intention of giving her information that might be of benefit to her or others.All women need to be well educated on IBC, especially nursing mothers. IBC is often misdiagnosed as a nursing mom infection; the woman is given antibiotics and sent on her way.Time might heal all wounds, but with IBC time works against you and a proper and accurate diagnosis is very important. IBC is not detectable prior to a stage three, it does not present with a lump, is typically not found on a mammogram and the symptoms don’t fit what we tend to view as possible cancer threat.

Quick check list of symptoms of IBC

Inflammatory breast cancer symptoms may include:

  • Breast swelling, which one breast is suddenly larger than the other
  • Breast that feels warm to touch and may look infected
  • Itching or shooting pain
  • A dimpling of the breast skin that looks like an orange peel (peau d’orange)
  • Thickening of the skin
  • Flattened or discolored nipple
  • Swelling in underarm or only on one side of neck
  • Might feel lump, however lumps are not common in IBC.

It stands to reason that nursing would aid in the good health of that child, as well as the mother.However it is not a magical cloak of protection from a disease that is viewed as seriously as IBC.So please from one nursing mom to another, practice good breast health, read about IBC, and talk to your friends, midwives, and daughters.This conversation might be uncomfortable as it might go against what you believe to be true as to the benefits nursing gives you as a woman, but we need to be willing to be uncomfortable sometimes, as knowledge is power.We need to be educated on IBC.

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by Terry Arnold



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